Dialing With Sticky Fingers:
Confessions of a Phone Sex Goddess
By Indigo Skye
After leaving a dead-end job, I decided to try something different. I’d seen ads for fantasy phone actresses, and I have to admit it- I was intrigued. I did a little research, applied for a position, and went through a brief training session. Twenty-four hours later, I was ready for my first shift.
What I discovered may blow your mind, make you laugh, and turn you on. I'm going to reveal the fantasies of men of all ages, shapes, and sizes, in hopes of fostering a better understanding of the fantasy life of the average (and not-so-average) American male.
The Tools of the Trade
What do you need to get started in this exciting and sexy field? A land-line phone is essential, and headsets are preferred for hands-free convenience during those sexy calls! You'll also need a quiet place where you'll have privacy to work. (I prefer the bedroom.) A good supply of erotica is a must, along with a few well-chosen toys- and don't forget the lube!
You must be open-minded, and willing to listen without judgment. Some guys are just calling to talk, and others are calling to get off. Sometimes they want to make a sexy confession, or listen to one of your fantasies. You'll need to hone your acting skills - you've got to be able to fake it if you're not into the type of fantasy the caller enjoys. Your job is to make sure he has a good time, so he wants to call back.
Many companies offer several different types of fetish calls, or specialty calls, and you've got to be able to be convincing at each role, at a moment's notice. You might be called upon to impersonate a sexy MILF, a teen dominatrix, a chick with a dick, a big busty blonde, or a variety of other fantasy roles- all in the same hour.
A sexy voice is a must. Knowing how to listen is even more important, as you'll see in "My First Call." An active fantasy life, a working knowledge of various sex-toys, and a decent collection of inspiring erotica can also come in handy when you need a little inspiration.
Sometimes, you'll be turned on. It can be a sexy way to explore your own fantasies in a safe space. Other times you'll feel nervous, or even a little freaked out and uncomfortable. This is completely normal. I wrote this article to open a dialogue about sexual fantasy, and the role of the phone sex goddess in our society today. It's a dirty job, but somebody's gotta do it!
I am going to share, openly and honestly, ALL the juicy details of my time spent dialing with sticky fingers...
My First Call
My first caller was a young man named Matthew. He was shy and submissive, and confessed that he'd never been with a girl before. We got to talking, and I tried to listen carefully and draw him out of his shell.
Matthew told me that his only sexual experience had been with another boy, when he was in high school. He said, "I've never told anyone this before." He admitted that was ashamed of it, and he thought that if he revealed his secret, girls might laugh, or think it was weird. I sensed that he just needed someone to understand, and accept him. I reassured him, and I told him the truth- I personally find it very sexy to think of two guys together.
"I think it's hot," I told him. "And I'm not alone. Most of my girlfriends feel the same way."
Matthew confessed that he was also concerned about the encounter because thinking about it- and talking about it- really turned him on. "Does that mean I'm gay?" he asked, worried.
Even though we're not supposed to reveal anything personal to callers, I told Matthew about one of my own experiences. It seemed to set his mind at ease a little. I reassured him, telling him same-sex experimentation is perfectly normal.
"I think most people are really bisexual, deep down...if they'd only let themselves be," I told him.
"So, if we were dating, and I told you I'd never been with another girl, but I'd been with a guy-that wouldn't be weird?"
"Hell, no. It's totally normal, and, in my opinion, very sexy."
We had a great chat, and ended the call on a positive note. I learned that sometimes, a guy isn't just calling to get wild and nasty with an anonymous bimbo. He wants to talk about his experiences, and be reassured that those experiences do not make him a freak.
"You're very sexy, and very open minded. Thanks. This gives me hope," he said. It gave me hope, too- hope that I could help shy, scared guys like him blossom, and open their hearts like sunflowers. Matthew was sweet, scared, and maybe even more nervous than I was- all in all, a perfect first time!
Down the Rabbit-Hole: Dominic's Story
Dominic, a thirty-something banker, was a likable, talkative guy. He told me that he lives in California, is tan and blonde, and has a great ass. When I asked him to tell me about one of his kinkiest experiences, I got a little more than I bargained for.
So did Dominic. Here's the story, in his own words:
"I was at a bar one night, and a girl came up to me and we started flirting. After a few drinks, we were really into each other, so she invited me back to her place. She changed into some sexy lingerie, and we made out for a while. Then, she went down on me. It was amazing. When I asked if I could return the favor, she whipped out a cock!"
Dominic was in a very compromising position. He hadn't been expecting this, and he was surprised to discover how much it turned him on. Dom is bi, and very secure with his sexuality. He felt a little strange about this sudden turn of events, but he decided to go with it anyway. He reports that he ended up sucking the guy's cock, and then fucking him in the ass that fateful night. In fact, he enjoyed himself so much that the two of them hooked up for further erotic adventures on and off for the next few months, including a hot threesome with another girl.
Lesson learned- Things aren't always what they seem to be on the singles scene! In this brave new millenia, it's necessary to keep your eyes (and your mind) open, and your jimmy-hat at the ready.
~Indigo
