20 Ways to Find Your Inner Sex-Goddess
By Roxanne Rhoads
Being a sex goddess isn't about how you look, it is about
how you think and how you feel. You don't have to look like a Victoria Secret
model or a porn star to be a sex goddess. You just have to learn to think sexy
and feel sexy, it's all about attitude.
Here are some
simple things you can do to alter your way of thinking, define
what you think is sexy, and help you find your inner sex goddess. You might
want to grab a notebook and a pen because some it requires you to write things
down.
These are simple
things that can help you see yourself and your sexuality more
clearly. They can boost your confidence and help you live life fully and
sexually.
1) Evaluate
yourself in the mirror, what are your best features? Decide what you would like
to change about your physical appearance, if it can be changed- start doing
something about it, if it can't -learn to accept it and love it. Learn how to
accentuate your strengths and your best assets. Learn to love yourself and see
your inner beauty.
2) Start exercising;
get your body in shape for sex. A healthy body is a sexy body. Plus exercise
combats depression and releases natural endorphins that make you feel better
which will help you feel sexier.
3) Write down a
list of your strengths and weaknesses both physical and mental/emotional. Work
on enhancing your strengths.
4) Make a list of
the women you think are sexy and why. This could be a fictional character in a
movie or on TV or it could be your next door neighbor or someone you work with.
5) Describe what
you think is sexy, define sex appeal to you.
6) Make a list of
things you would like to do (ex: take a Pilates class, an art class or
learn to tango) pick one item from your list and go do it
7) Make a list of
places you would like to travel to (they can be 30 or 3000 miles away or
anywhere in between). Now make arrangements to go to one of these places.
8) Read an
erotic romance novel or some great erotic short stories that you can find
online.
9) Watch porn.
You may cringe but there are movies made specifically to cater to women, movies
by Playgirl or made for Playgirl Television and anything by Candida Royalle.
There are also many websites that cater to women. You need to broaden your
horizons and let go of your inhibitions. A sex goddess is uninhibited. There
are also many websites that cater to women.
10) Write down a
sexual fantasy of yours in explicit detail.
11) Order some
lingerie catalogs or shop online, buy some new and sexy lingerie. Get something
you would have never considered buying before, be bold and daring.
12) Get a
makeover, color your hair, get a new hairstyle, do something that changes how
you look and makes you feel good, makes you feel like a new woman.
13) Give your
bedroom a makeover; turn it into a love nest with exotic bold colors, sensual
fabrics, soft lighting, lots of fluffy pillows, and candles. Get rid of the
pink frilly ruffles and lace, think sexy, silk, satin, velvet, damask, brocade,
rich sumptuous fabrics that will tease and tantalize your skin.
14) Touch
yourself, learn how your skin feels, how it responds to your touch, discover
how you like to be touched, what feels good to you. Use different items like
silk scarves, feathers, leather straps, delight in the different textures and
how they feel. Wear a blindfold to increase the sensations
15) Masturbate,
often. A woman that can control her own pleasure is a woman in control. This
will help you be able to give and receive pleasure which is a major turn on.
Invest in some sex toys.
16) Accept your
sexual identity; do not be afraid of your sexuality or your desires. We are
sexual creatures and we should not be ashamed of that.
17) Put together
a sexual treasure chest, in it you should have things like a blindfold, fuzzy
handcuffs, a selection of vibrators and dildos, scented massage oils,
lickable/edible body oils and lotions, tickling feather, candles, cock
rings, condoms (depending on your situation), etc... You could also store
your copy of the Kama Sutra and your selection of porn magazines and DVD's in
your little treasure trove of sexual goodies.
18) Pamper
yourself, give yourself a wonderful treat, take some time to yourself, do
something that feels good that you find relaxing.
19) Have sex as
often as possible, be an active participant. Enjoy the sensations. Be open to
giving and receiving pleasure.
20) Make a list
of sexual things you would like to do, pick one and start experimenting or
remember that fantasy you wrote down in explicit detail, go act it out.
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